The Write Everyday in May Challenge

pexels-photo-316465.jpegToday I will tell you how a tiny bit of success ruined my life (or just derailed my blog). If you check out the archives, you’ll see that this blog was started in 2016. I didn’t start writing regularly, however, until October. Starting in the middle of October of 2017, I tried to write everyday. I didn’t quite make it, but I created enough of a habit that I posted more in November than any month before or after. It felt good building the habit.

Then in late November, I got featured in Rockstar Finance. I can tell you honestly that was not the goal because I didn’t know regular sites got featured on Rockstar Finance. But with that feature, my middling viewership skyrocketed, even if only for a few days. But the surge had a profound effect on me. I changed from thinking, I’m just writing for myself, to, I COULD BE POPULAR. And for a hot second, I chased popularity. I read up on SEO and (ugh) Pinterest. I tried social media, which was great because 1) I finally could claim some Millennial cred and 2) I met some cool people and 3) had very cool experiences like attending CampFi on a last minute ticket. I’ve even set up some interviews with people I met on Facebook that will soon become posts. All in all, I don’t regret social media the way most people do.

But I found that the social media and other activities were distracting me from what I really wanted – which was writing. Yes, the number of people visiting my blog went up a lot, but I only made 6 posts in April, the lowest number I’ve done in 6 months. I’ve heard that successful bloggers focus more on marketing than writing and I’m sure that’s true but that’s not my vision of success.

I think some people may be misled to think that I’m trying to make my blog popular and then monetize like every other personal finance blogger. I mean, I wouldn’t hate it (the monetization anyway, though I’m terrified of popularity) but the overarching reason I write is because writing benefits me.

I have a lot of stories I want to tell. I have 165 drafts in my inbox that represent posts that I’m trying to write. When I started writing my blog, I had 150 drafts. Rather than diminishing, the number of drafts has increased because I haven’t finished them and I keep adding more. My blog wasn’t accomplishing its mission of inbox zero.

I have to remember (sorry readers) that this blog is for me. I mean, I hope it’s helpful to you too, if only in that I encourage you to write more. For instance, here are some ways that writing has helped me:

  1. It helps me store memories and experiences away like Dumbledore.  It’s just a relief that I don’t have to remember everything in this tiny little mind I have. Without my journal and my blog, my life would just pass me by and I wouldn’t spend the time to reflect on my experiences or learn from them.
  2. It helps me synthesize thoughts and ideas and organize my thoughts.
  3. It has helped me to connect with others. It’s been lovely reading comments.
  4. Writing helps me remember the things I read in the tons of books I read per year. Otherwise it’s all in one ear out the other.
  5. It helps me chart my progress. It’s amazing when people take pictures of themselves every day for years – you can see the changes as they happen.
     Writing down your thoughts is like seeing your mind change. It doesn’t always seem like we are changing but we are, often subtly. If we don’t make a record of who we were before, we might fail to see the progress and think we aren’t getting anywhere. It’s very difficult to take a picture of your mind though – but writing can help take a snapshot of who you were at this period of time.
  6. It helps exercise the creativity and self-expression muscles.
So I’m going back to my original purpose. I pledge to write every day in May. Why don’t you join me? My challenge to you – whether you’re a blogger or not – is to spend some time writing every day this month. It doesn’t all have to be perfect or even intelligible. I will try to make my posts as intelligible as possible, readers, but mostly I just want to make a dent in my pile of ideas and take some weight off my brain. I hope you do the same.

Will you join me in my writing spree? Why do you write?

4 thoughts on “The Write Everyday in May Challenge

  1. I’m excited to get more posts from you. I can never get enough!

    I started my blog to chart my financial life and progress, I don’t ever plan to get a lot of reader or make money off it. It’s just a hobby, but it is inexpensive compared to others.

    1. That’s a good mentality about your blog. I think I trust people who like to write more than those who are doing it for the money!

  2. Writing consistently is something I struggle with all the time. I get distracted by social media and trying to do the marketing stuff and really need to buckle down and write. When I’m writing I love it, but it’s hard for me to sit down and get started. I’m with you on trying to write every day in May. My plan is to start with a small goal, maybe 200 words per day. Setting a limit helps me with the getting going part!

    1. That’s a great goal! I’m taking a break from Twitter just to concentrate on this! I’m excited that you’re going to be writing more.

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